Yowsers! That’s a lot of new followers!! Hello, all you people.
I’ve gotten more followers over the last month than I usually get in a year – and the biggest spike has come in the last three days (this is being posted on 15 July, 2020). The “About” section of my blog’s header was getting unwieldy, so I’ve trimmed it down, and am pinning this post at the start, instead.
My Biases:
Note: one of the original meanings of the word “Bias” is: a slope of the ground that affects how a ball rolls toward its target, and has to be compensated for. We all have them, because we all have unique and limited experience of the world. Biases are not bad, in themselves, as long as you account for them.
Here are some aspects of my identity that have the most weight when it comes to which directions my thoughts tend to swerve in:
- I was born with a physical disability that affects how I move through the world. The
relative importance of this fact varies from day to day and hour to
hour, but it’s the thing that I’ve been living with the longest, and
it’s the thing new people notice first.
- Because I can’t take moving through the world for granted, I am almost always looking at the spaces between things, both literally, and metaphorically. I love the liminal spaces of fairy tales, dreams, and myths.
- I am White. I am Cis. I am American. My first language is English. I was raised as a Christian. If I get careless with my privilege in any of these areas, please remind me.
- I’ve reached the age where nearly everyone on the Internet strikes me as being young, tender babes. And I want to protect
them allmost of them. - I’ve only recently discovered the language for my aromantic & asexual orientation, and through that discovery I’m also realizing that I’m polyamorous (without a polycule), and platonically pan attracted
- All these complications make the identity of “Queer” fit most comfortably. If you feel the need to tag that identity with “slur,” don’t bother interacting. I tag my queer posts, and you are free to blacklist that tag, if the word is a trigger for you..
- I am a devout Atheist. I got there after being Neo-Pagan for many years. But I also believe that religion is a natural, and (potentially, at least) beneficial instinct in humans. In other words, I have a religion, but my religion has no gods. The reasons I left Christianity are different than the reasons I left Neo-Paganism.
What you’ll find here:
- This journal is random, overall. I generally post whatever is on my mind, especially contemplative and/or silly. Favorite topics include literature, discoveries in science and nature, writing that I’m working on (or should be working on), drawings I’ve doodled, etc.
What counts as “Good Manners” around here:
- Don’t be mean. There’s no need to be mean. Remember, wherever you go, there you are.
- Praise what you enjoy before criticizing what you don’t.
- When you do give criticism, let it be reasoned (“It sucks!” isn’t reasoning).
- Don’t belittle, or mock, people for the things they enjoy.
- If you must post provocative things, aim for provoking laughter, and provoking thought.
- If you feel an exchange between you and someone else in a discussion thread is becoming personal and heated, please take it somewhere else (DMs, asks, or make a separate post)
- When in doubt: Puns!
Also: Rest Assured: I will Never never make a “Reblog, or else you’re a bad person,” or “Reblog, or else bad things will happen.”
(Though I may ask for reblogs for signal boosts, if someone is asking for specific help / advice, and needs to get their message out.
Also, be aware: I check every new blog that follows me. If I have reason to suspect that it’s a blog that exists solely for selling stuff, or is a business trying to masquerade as an individual person, I will block that blog.

